It often happens in a relationship that one of the partners gives, gives, and gives, the other only takes. But the taker does not necessarily receive. This can often result in conflict. Resentments accumulate and arguments become the background music in the environment. What began as a beautiful relationship, disintegrates and ends. Or it goes on for years with that resentment and a list of saved complaints as thick as a phone book.

The person who gives is waiting to receive something in return and is giving from a conditional place. However, deep down at an unconscious level he feels he does not deserve it. This belief is active because it is something from the past that has not yet been healed. This also holds true for people who are the opposite, who may not have the ability to give and can only take from the other. But it never touches them, it is never enough and they never feel that they receive. In both cases, it is necessary to find that love within oneself, and then the fear of giving and the fear of receiving both disappear. You begin to value and appreciate what you receive, which you could not do before because “it was never enough.”

Thus, you create a circle where you begin to give, always giving and giving and as a result you receive, always receiving and receiving. It is always coming and going in this constant circle. It is the action of consciousness and unconditional love, which comes and goes, flowing in and out.

By focusing on expanding your consciousness, expanding that inner love that is unconditional, unlimited, endless, (whether you use my system or another), you will always want to give more. You will learn how the inner experience of abundance continues to grow because of giving from a place that you have healed, and how you can be fully present in peace and happiness. And you will continue to open yourself to receive more and more. Then, you can continue choosing to love yourself until this love becomes something permanent.

Once it stabilizes, you cannot lose that connection, although sometimes it may be covered over with stress. But what you have achieved, the consciousness you experience, is permanently there. There is no going back or losing it, you will always be moving to the next level, the next step in the permanent expansion of your consciousness, that love within you. After all, awareness is not something so difficult to cultivate. Consciousness is who you are, so the more you focus on it, the more the vibration rises, and then the removal of all that is not real or does not serve you will also be faster, and the experience will grow rapidly. We just have to choose it. One is what one chooses, so … I invite you to choose love.

Isha Judd is an Australian humanitarian spiritual teacher based in Latin America, author of “Love Has Wings” and “Why Walk When You Can Fly?”. Watch “Why Walk When You Can Fly?” on itunes. Her website is Watch more movies and inspiring videos at

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